Have to? Or GET TO?

Jon Gordon has discussed this topic quite a few times on stage and in his books.

How many times do you think (especially on Monday’s) about what you “have to” do today?

“I have to go to work.”

“I have to take out the trash.”

“I have to pay that bill.”

“I have to unsubscribe from the free paper towels Monday email service. I still have no idea how they got my email…”

If you took the time and wrote out all the times you think about what you “have to” do, the list would be staggering.

If we could reframe those thoughts into “get to”, just replace one word, our world seems brighter.

You see, there are thousands of people who would love to GET TO do what you HAVE TI DO.

You have to go to work? Tons of people are out of jobs right now.

You have to take out the trash? A lot of people are homeless and don’t have a trash can to take out.

You have to unsubscribe from stupid junk emails? The world is full of people who don’t even own a computer.

And from another angle, everything we think we have to do, actually helps us somehow in our own lives.

So today, each time you think of something you have to do, spend twice the time thinking of how blessed you are to get to do it, and how whatever it is will actually help you in the long run.

Get to it this Monday 🙂

-Dr Lindeman

Stop should-ing all over yourself

I heard something great in church this weekend.

“We need to stop should-ing 💩 all over ourselves!”

I loved it!

If you are exercising, reading, eating well, in a relationship, etc, because you feel you “should” be….stop!

Guilt is a repressor, not a motivator.

Instead, find reasons why you WANT to do those things. If you want to do them to form a brighter future, for instance, latch on to that, and let go of the “should.”

Have a monumental Monday, friends!

-Dr Lindeman

Actions speak louder… and results SCREAM

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Vision is necessary for a brighter future.

Action is PARAMOUNT!

When you combine the two, the results are magnificent!

-Dr. Lindeman

 

For more, check out  my book Purposely Positive: How to Live an Intentional and Inspired Life on Amazon! (Or just click on the title, it will take you there automagically 🙂

Break the chains of mediocrity!

“BECAUSE IF YOU LEAVE YOUR GROWTH TO HAPPENSTANCE, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE CHAINED TO MEDIOCRITY.”-BRENDON BURCHARD

I love this guy! (Check out his website here)

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This statement is so true!

As a new year begins to gain traction, we tend to have big dreams for big changes.

The problem is we don’t STRATEGIZE (I’m making it a word for today, ok?) enough on how to achieve them.

Plan your work and work your plan.

Have BIG goals, (powered by HUGE WHYS/motivation to achieve them) but chunk up the HOW you are going to cross those finish lines.

Take time to envision the end result, but even more time to work on the processes of getting there.

In reality, that is truly where the joy lives, in the journey.

Get planning my friends!

-Dr. Lindeman

P.S. For more ways to empower your ideal life, check out my book Purposely Positive: How to Live an Intentional and Inspired Life on Amazon!

Thank you for sharing these, Ashley! They are so true and the fit so well together!

If you want to truly feel ALIVE, you must be healthy.

The best way to start living a healthier life? START BY STARTING.

Eating well, thinking well, moving well, exercise, diet, mentality, all of these can seem daunting…

The best thing to do is take a small step toward a healthier, more meaningFULL life is to start.

Happy steps my friends!

-Dr. Lindeman

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What CREATES Happiness?

This book is great!

I read this excerpt this morning and thought I should share. Many people have ideas of what can create happiness (better job, wealth, losing weight, health) but research shows that these events have little effect on lasting happiness.

The book discusses the fact that we are in fact, in control of our own happiness.

I highly recommend the book!

-Dr. Lindeman

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PASSION IS THE RESULT

“WHAT MOST PEOPLE DON’T UNDERSTAND IS THAT PASSION IS THE RESULT OF ACTION, NOT THE CAUSE OF IT.”-Mark Manson

 

Too often, we sit back, searching for our passion to drive us.

In reality, when we get a spark, and ignite into action, we will find our passion rekindled.

Get busy doing something, start small, a small nudge of creativity can lead to a big push of passion!

Happy Tuesday!

-Dr. Lindeman

 

P.S. If you are looking for more inspiration, check out my book, Purposely Positive: How to Live an Intentional and Inspired Life on Amazon!