I truly believe that, no matter our chosen field of endeavor, if we strive for excellence there will ALWAYS be room to succeed.
Excellence is achieved by a commitment to daily steps and decisions. And it is never over.
Striving to improve is excellent.
And remember, the joy is in the journey, so make sure you choose to attempt to be excellent as something you actually like doing. I don’t think excellence would be sustainable if there wasn’t happiness to be found in the striving 🙂
One chapter I really like discusses how at the end of the day, about an hour before bed it is IMPERATIVE to turn off the tv, the phone, tablet, etc and to truly relax, read and ideally journal.
Messing with technology before bed is all too commonplace (A study quoted in the book stated that over 90% of participants looked at their phone (scrolled) just before bed). The detriments time doing so include: brain waves activating rather than shutting down, suppressing melatonin from the blue lighted screens, and delaying the all-too-important REM sleep.
Instead, unplug, relax and journal. All it takes is to write down 3 wins from the day you had and write 3 you’d like to achieve tomorrow.
Keep them small, but true goals (“having my coffee” is probably not a lofty goal).
When you look back at your wins, think of the people you’ve lifted up and connected with as well.
The world needs connection and you play a huge role in that.
As a chiropractor/business owner, numbers are a measuring stick on how well we are doing. New patients, patient visits, collections, expenses, etc. These all help us gauge our success.
Nothing wrong with that.
The problem arises if we put too much emphasis on the numbers and forget the meaning behind them.
Numbers only measure finite things and no matter what we “do”, I highly doubt our purpose lies in the finite.
Our why goes much deeper than what we can measure.
Keep track of the numbers, most definitely, but more importantly, don’t lose sight of what the numbers actually represent.
And dwell a bit more on the things we cannot measure: connection to our patients/customers/co-workers, passion for what we do, the reason we get out of bed and go to work, making each person’s day just a bit better, spreading joy, having fun, expanding life through our “jobs.”
We cannot measure those things directly, but they are the necessary ingredients for any numbers to materialize.
I love this, and thank you for sharing Jessica (my office manager).
However, don’t let this mislead you into thinking the one step will equal achievement.
Another quote a love is “growth is a process, not a light switch.”
They key is to combine both and know the ONE decision you make (or are not making…which is still a decision) will push you toward your goal and could be the final step. But even if it is not the final step, but rather the first or 23445th, making the decision will propel you more toward the life you want.
On December 30th, 2021 our community was shaken by tragedy.
A brush fire, fueled by 100 mph wind gusts, quickly evolved into fear, mayhem and devastation.
Over 900 structures burned, many of which were completely destroyed.
People were forced to evacuate their homes, and told to only grab clothing for a few nights, important documents, and flee.
It has been a tragic ending to 2021 and a devastating beginning for so many to 2022. So many coping with “what do I do now?” “How can we re-build our lives?”
This event is a reminder of how quickly things can change, in a flash.
My family and I are OK, our home is ok, my business is ok, our school is ok. So many people (including friends) were not as fortunate.
I know the community will come together to help rebuild, regenerate and re-grow.
You can help too.
To start, anyone and everyone can help by putting more love into the world. And love is the ONLY thing that can truly overcome devastation.
I love this section on how to actually use jealousy to your advantage.
Comparison can steal your joy, for sure, but only if you have limiting beliefs and do not grasp abundance.
We can look at things/emotions/places/successes others have and decide we can’t have them too bc they already have them, or we can decide that the universe is infinite, and the fact they have them is PROOF we can too!
It’s ALWAYS your decision(s).
So next time that little voice pops up when you feel the pang of jealousy, FLIP IT into the realization that we can achieve all that and more.
Well, the truth is we humans are great at celebrating and lifting others up, but if we fail to do so for ourselves, we will run our tanks empty pretty quick.
When we take the time to celebrate not only our achievements, but who we are at this very moment, we set the stage for magic to happen.
When you congratulate yourself for a life well loved thus far, you create a plethora of chemical and emotional responses that allow further growth and happiness to take place.
So start with a high five in the mirror. Read this book. Then start loving who you are so you can love others, and move forward in becoming who you want to be!
You should definitely check out The Ed Mylett podcast and Mel Robbins book: The High Give Habit
There is power (and research) in celebrating small victories, congratulating ourselves, and setting intention.
One thing the book and this podcast episode touches on is the fact that, unfortunately, we are prone to feeling unworthy of celebration. In fact we are prone to feeling unworthy in general.
We can raise that baseline simply by incorporating small celebrations and acknowledgements of our amazing worthy-ness into our daily lives.
We all deserve love. And we definitely deserve to love ourselves.
We have survived every crazy challenge that has been put before us to this point.
We have overcome many obstacles.
We do A LOT of things l, very well, every day.
We impact lives (whether we know it or not).
We have style.
We have grace.
We smile, we laugh, we love, we help, we even provide energy for others (including nature).
We are amazing.
Listen ti the podcast, read the book, and HIGH FIVE yourselves today!